Stick with Me

When I was a little girl, the only people I ever saw using walking sticks were old people. Of course, when you’re five the term “old” probably applies to everyone over 30.   Although I learnt to walk at the age of six, my balance was always very precarious and falling over was pretty much a daily occurrence.  Apart from the inevitable knee grazes and bruising, I never really hurt myself, but looking back I’m surprised that no-one ever suggested I use a walking aid such as a stick.

My balanced improved as I got older, although I still had the occasional tumble…sometimes no doubt induced by the affluence of alcohol (hic).  It wasn’t until I was my late thirties that falling over really became an issue again.  By then, I’d noticed some not-so-old people were using walking sticks, so one day at my local pharmacy I bought a gold-coloured metal stick with a soft black handle.   At first I only used it occasionally, but as I got older I have found it more and more useful.

Whenever I travelled, I found the stick gained me more acceptance from airline staff and fellow passengers.  Without the stick, people were sometimes unsure what was “wrong” with me (did  I have a physical disability, or had I just put vodka on my cornflakes?).  With the stick, they understood I had a mobility impairment and gave me more assistance and space to walk.

Earlier this year, the Christchurch City Council sought input for it’s Central City Plan as the city is rebuilt from the earthquakes. I took part in the Share an Idea consultation process and then received an email asking if I would be happy to be photographed for the Plan document which would become “an historic document”.


"Allison and her trusty friend"

The email asked that if I agreed, would I please bring a “prop”, the example given was a racing bike and leathers.  Hmmm, that would be tricky… Being less-than-shy, I agreed to do this, but pointed out “my only prop is a walking stick” (little pun there).  The reply came back, “perfect, we need all sorts of people”.  

So it was I ended up doing a 30-minute “photo shoot” with a professional photographer.  It was great fun.  The Council later sent me a CD with the photos on.

To younger people with CP or other mobility impairments, I’d say don’t feel self-conscious about using a walking stick or a walker to aid your mobility.  My only problem these days is a) remembering to take my stick with me and, b) not leaving it behind in shops, banks, and cafes etc!

- Allison Franklin (pictured)


Ross Flood

rflood@cpsociety.org.nz  



 
2011 Archive Articles:

A New Monkie 29/10/2011
The Challenges of Young Parents 22/10/2011
ATTITUDE AWARDS on Horizon 13/10/2011
Cricket for people with disabilities 7/10/2011
Rugby World Cup-- Great...Almost 30/9/2011
Try a fresh approach to networking 21/9/2011
“Give it a go” day 14/9/2011
Christchurch Schools Boccia Tournament 7/9/2011
getPhysical is up and running 1/9/2011
Winter and the Danger of Fire 24/8/2011
Sail with Spirit of Adventure 17/8/2011
How about a card system for parking? 11/8/ 2011
Milestone Wilson Home Anniversary 2/8/2011
Sport’s menu widens 27/7/2011
Why so Ga-ga? 20/7/2011
Let’s round up these cowboys and girls 13/7/2011
Celebrities’ embraced; diets on hold 6/7/2011
FUTURE BOCCIA CHAMPIONS ON DISPLAY 28/6/2011
The ten year fire safety plan 22/6/2011
Inter-ACT Disability Arts Festival 15/6/2011
Repairs@accessable 8/6/2011
A heads up on Auckland Transport's HOP Card 30/5/2011
IF YOU DON’T CARE, HOW CAN WE 19/5/2011
Lynette “Lives the day" 12/5/2011
Feedback from the Ministry of Health’s Consumer Consortium – April 2011 Meeting 3/5/2011
The Big Day 28/4/2011
George Departs the Disability Scene 19/4/2011
Sound business plans funded 13/4/2011
Domestic abuse is a reality 6/4/2011
Auckland Council Disability Group Call for applicants 30/3/2011
New model on trial in BoP 25/3/2011
60th Anniversary (A timeline; most worthy) 17/3/2011
Remodelling Disability Support 8/3/2011
Join us on Facebook 1/3/2011
Boccia across the Ditch 22/2/2011
JAFA-ville's access is improving 15/2/2011
Parking problems at Festival 1/2/2011
Demystifying Disability via TV 25/1/2011
Boccia Rolls into Top Gear 18/1/2011 (Video & Photos)
New Year (1/1/2011) (Video)
Brunch at Barrel Hall (Auckland) 7/12/2010 (Photos)
Attitude Awards 2010 (03/12/2010)
Difficult terrain no sweat for Beachwheels 26/11/2010
getOnYourTrikes gets on TV1 19/11/2010
All Modes of Transport Welcome 22/10/2010
Dizzy over thought-controlled wheelchairs 15/10/2010
Perfect Boccia Opportunity 8/10/2010
A fun event to pencil in 3/10/2010
The dark side beckons you 23/9/2010
Give Boccia a go out West Auckland 16/9/2010
Photos urgently required 8/9/2010
A man of many talents 31/8/210
Disability Rights Workshop 10/8/2010
A Worthy Read 3/8/2010
Exquisite, Breathtaking, Provocative 27/7/2010
“Mamma Mia” what a night!!! 20/7/2010
(Video-Photos)
The Foghorn Experience 13/7/2010
Beyond Joke and Pocket 6/7/2010
Boccia circuit in full swing 30/6/2010
New players welcome to Bridge Battle 25/6/2010
A video resource kit 17/6/2010
2010 Review of Human Rights in New Zealand 10/6/2010
Early initiatives make the man 3/6/2010
Unforgettable Journeys 27/5/2010

Subsidized insulation and heating 20/5/2010
“Big OE on Wheels" 13/5/2010
Discussion on the causes and consequences of CP 6/5/2010
ADHB needs your input 29/4/2010
“Know How” Expo a must for Diaries 22/4/2010
Knight champions cord blood research 14/4/2010
Spark your creative juices 6/4/2010
Mike agrees, Adam’s a cool dude 30/3/2010
A Dummy's Guide to Cord Blood and Stem Cells..... :) 23/3/2010
Auckland Trots Night 2010 16/3/2010 (Photos)
Changes to equipment and modifications services 9/3/2010
Bob knew anything is possible 2/3/2010
Special Education Review ! (19th Mar.!) 20/2/2010
People Getting Out There 10/2/2010
Disability perspective of Avatar 3/2/2010

AusACPDM Conference - Christchurch 26/1/2010
CP Society Holiday Boccia Tournament 15/1/2010 (Photos)
“Getting Out There” in Hamilton 5/1/2010

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The meeting occured on Sunday the 30th October. Regarding the elections for the Board, it was announced at the meeting that one of the nominations was invalid. The meeting agreed that all those that had supplied a valid proxy would be requested to vote knowing those candidates that were valid. Letters and voting papers have been sent out to the 45 members who had supplied a valid proxy appointment. They should be in their letter boxes by Wednesday the 2nd Nov. These voting papers have to be returned by the 11th November. Members at the meeting also voted. All votes will be compiled on the 11th November and the successful candidates will be informed and the results put up on this website.

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