Domestic abuse is a reality

“It was an accident.”

“It was your fault – you made me do it.”

“You made it up.”

These are three common excuses for abuse recorded in a new booklet entitled Domestic Violence and Disabled People, launched in Auckland, on 8th March.

The booklet, which was developed by the Auckland Domestic Violence and Disability Group, and funded by the “It's not OK” Campaign, dismantles the myth that abuse does not happen to disabled people.

One of the most telling photos that shows abuse towards the disabled does happen is chillingly illustrated near the middle of the book. The photo depicts a young woman lying prone on the carpet, at the foot of her wheelchair. Alongside her is the command “IF YOU WANT IT - CRAWL FOR IT “  

The booklet deals with specific forms of violence and points out that the abuser can be a spouse, partner, family member or someone you normally share a household with, like in a flat or institutional setting.

The booklet also gives sound advice on what to do and who to turn to in times of crisis. Find a person “who believes that abuse can occur and believes you,” and have a safety plan ready to be used when violence or abuse is happening, are two of the solutions found within the booklets pages.

A two paged  lift out questionnaire occupies the middle pages and provides a check list of the various forms of abuse. The questionnaire recommends seeking help from a domestic violence service if you answered “yes” to any of its questions.

The booklet can be ordered free of charge from the It's not OK website.  www.areyouok.org.nz/. Please contact your local CCS or Disability Information Centres for further enquires.

Ross Flood

 
2010 Archive Articles:

Auckland Council Disability Group Call for applicants 30/3/2011
New model on trial in BoP 25/3/2011
60th Anniversary (A timeline; most worthy) 17/3/2011
Remodelling Disability Support 8/3/2011
Join us on Facebook 1/3/2011
Boccia across the Ditch 22/2/2011
JAFA-ville's access is improving 15/2/2011
Parking problems at Festival 1/2/2011
Demystifying Disability via TV 25/1/2011
Boccia Rolls into Top Gear 18/1/2011 (Video & Photos)
New Year (1/1/2011) (Video)
Brunch at Barrel Hall (Auckland) 7/12/2010 (Photos)
Attitude Awards 2010 (03/12/2010)
Difficult terrain no sweat for Beachwheels 26/11/2010
getOnYourTrikes gets on TV1 19/11/2010
All Modes of Transport Welcome 22/10/2010
Dizzy over thought-controlled wheelchairs 15/10/2010
Perfect Boccia Opportunity 8/10/2010
A fun event to pencil in 3/10/2010
The dark side beckons you 23/9/2010
Give Boccia a go out West Auckland 16/9/2010
Photos urgently required 8/9/2010
A man of many talents 31/8/210
Disability Rights Workshop 10/8/2010
A Worthy Read 3/8/2010
Exquisite, Breathtaking, Provocative 27/7/2010
“Mamma Mia” what a night!!! 20/7/2010
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The Foghorn Experience 13/7/2010
Beyond Joke and Pocket 6/7/2010
Boccia circuit in full swing 30/6/2010
New players welcome to Bridge Battle 25/6/2010
A video resource kit 17/6/2010
2010 Review of Human Rights in New Zealand 10/6/2010
Early initiatives make the man 3/6/2010
Unforgettable Journeys 27/5/2010

Subsidized insulation and heating 20/5/2010
“Big OE on Wheels" 13/5/2010
Discussion on the causes and consequences of CP 6/5/2010
ADHB needs your input 29/4/2010
“Know How” Expo a must for Diaries 22/4/2010
Knight champions cord blood research 14/4/2010
Spark your creative juices 6/4/2010
Mike agrees, Adam’s a cool dude 30/3/2010
A Dummy's Guide to Cord Blood and Stem Cells..... :) 23/3/2010
Auckland Trots Night 2010 16/3/2010 (Photos)
Changes to equipment and modifications services 9/3/2010
Bob knew anything is possible 2/3/2010
Special Education Review ! (19th Mar.!) 20/2/2010
People Getting Out There 10/2/2010
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AusACPDM Conference - Christchurch 26/1/2010
CP Society Holiday Boccia Tournament 15/1/2010 (Photos)
“Getting Out There” in Hamilton 5/1/2010

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